Crazily attended a women’s networking lunch which turned swiftly into a ‘male bashing’ session, all afternoon. Bunch of hard core feminists, distorted feminism.
25 women shared their nasty experiences with men. Surprised, not a positive word. Best comment, “all men are bad F…”
Why so sexist? They’re only humans like us. If they aren’t perfect, so aren’t we. If they make mistakes, so do we. Do we have unclear or unrealistic expectations? Did we honestly communicate and agree what we need? Apologise or forgive when needed? Listen and love empathetically?
Invest positive energy and effort to get to know them better? What’s said and more importantly, unspoken. Emotional, mental, sexual, spiritual maturity and balance is a must to create truly fulfilling relationships.
Dance of courtship and dating is all fun and games but when it gets rough, muddy or difficult do we critically judge or love compassionately, give respect no matter what? Are we a rock, an anchor or fancy fleeting butterflies?
We need to be independent, loving, playful, charming and attractive. Share dreams or desires authentically. Stay receptive and vulnerable not cold, sharp, calculated, gossiping.
We want good relationships, not a forced one. Confidently decide to be with a man visualised as super compatibile with creative chemistry. Being together should feel like a genuine rare privilege, not taken for granted.
Men are equally intuitive, perceptive as women. They know. Allow them to set direction, course of action and drive the relationship, with equal participation.
Not give a laundry list of things to do to prove their value or worth.
It isn’t about ‘you’ or ‘me’. It’s ‘US’.
Not going to meet the same bunch of women again. Gossip is low vibrational, disrespectful, improper, inconsiderate.