Email: Little disappointed, love wife but something’s missing? (US)
Read email in detail. You guys love each other, have an unbreakable bond as childhood sweethearts. Been together in highs/lows. Above and beyond romantic, quite rare. Don’t take authentic love for granted, a blessing (romantic or not).
Really important to understand what’s missing, what we want? What’s of real value long-term? Don’t throw baby out of bath water because of 1/2 traits! If potential is 8/10 discuss what’s lacking. Together, work on missing ingredients for a perfect 10! Balanced give and take. Fill in gaps equally. Find middle ground. Don’t rush to conclusions.
Without honest sharing, true effort how would we know what’s possible? Did we just make assumptions rather than check reality? Assume alternatives with 1/2 missing ingredients, but not best of 8. That’ll be a big loss, hugely dissatisfying! Logically, how can 2/10 outweigh 8/10? Self-expression is key. Don’t hold back perspectives, ideas, emotions, it’s so toxic.
Re: feedback on sex, issues arise when we don’t share needs, desires, expectations. Easily fixed if one takes a healthy initiative. Lead with passionate vulnerability, give it 100% before judgements. Deeply explore sensuality, sexuality. Dare to let out the free-spirited, playful, adventurous child. Inject spontaneous, romantic energy!
Sometimes, when we get everything we ever wanted, it blows our heads off, as well. Too meaningful to be true! We struggle to give recognition, love it deserves. Why would we sacrifice an irreplaceable gift for replaceable stuff?
A mutual deep love, loyalty, chemistry, playfulness, companionship, compassion, emotional bond is hard to find. A mistake to compare with mundane things, cherish it!
Take pro-active control to avoid confusion, pride, doubts. Even when life seems to be tumbling in all directions, we still have power to positively change outcomes. Love conquers everything!
So, give it a genuine go, listen! Good luck! Stay in touch.