Unconditional love…

Email: How can we have unconditional love for everyone? Unrealistic (HK)

You’re absolutely right. We can’t have unconditional love for all, unrealistic.

Unconditional love is genuine affection, giving without limitations or conditions – complete love. It doesn’t mean we have no expectations, rather fulfilment of a specific expectation isn’t a condition to our deep love. Perfect example, a parent-child bond – authentic, forgiving, balanced, supportive, nurturing, growing and loving. 

Unconditional Love isn’t being blinded or giving up our own worth or value, rather an innocent resolution nothing is more important than love (romantic or not).

Isn’t competitive, envious, prideful, egoistic, win or loss, show of strength or power. It’s a humble surrender. Flowing with natural rhythms, allows. Intuitively creative, gentle, endless, mysterious. Runs too deep – inexplicable, incomparable, irresistible.

Also, limitless self-love and belief. I am love. Faith in supreme power – God. Highly energetic, enlightening, transforming, life-affirming, magnetic. Nothing else matters.

We don’t intentionally decide to give unconditional love to another or self. Extremely rare, challenging, hurtful, heartfelt, soulful. Happens before we know, can’t realistically control. A blessing, miracle, wish, hope, passion, peace, magic!

A conscious decision, a choice to love another’s true essence – as they naturally are, no matter what they do or fail to do, regardless of circumstances with all imperfections. ‘I truly know you and still love you!’. 

It’s empathy, compassion, trust, patience and acceptance. Always being there, ‘how can I best support or love you right now?’ ‘How can I make you happy?’ Unbreakable.