Email: Father argues, nags daily, differences of opinion. What to do? (US)
Little conflict is healthy and unavoidable. What’s important is to not let perceived differences (may not be any), affect honesty or openness of interactions.
Naturally, we try to avoid conflict out of fear of hurting the other, but end up doing exactly the same! Don’t let fear drive our behaviour. Keep a positive mindset.
Humbly, lovingly approach your dad. No tough topics, focus on pleasant moments to bond. When both feel ready, gently weave in with a light-hearted or playful approach, nothing too serious or burdensome.
Compassionately listen to perspectives or advice, has more exposure or experience of life. Wisely, yet assertively share your thoughts. Find common ground. Believe you can.
If all else fails, ask your Mom to act as a mediator. A simple model of styles, above.
The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph!
Good luck…