Since my previous note on feminine magnetism, received a few emails from work colleagues, wanting to know my perspective on ‘feminine energy’…
Feminine energy is nurturing, sensitive, giving, vulnerable, grateful and receptive, while the masculine energy is about doing, go getting, goal seeking and taking action. It’s being truly responsive, expressive, intuitive, empathetic, compassionate, forgiving and accommodating (occasionally sacrificing), while the masculine energy is really competitive, plans, analyses, takes risks and control (can appear too controlling at times, but it’s not their real intent). It’s being comfortable with and having faith in following a man’s lead, believing and trusting his leadership, while playing an equally important role, as his trusted advisor, patient supporter, healer, inspiration and companion. Her inner beauty, purity, values and self-confidence emanate a bright glow, magnetic energy and power.
Agreeable is not a dirty word. If we want a ‘real masculine’ presence in our lives, we need to trust that he will step up into the role of a protector, provider, lover. She’ll allow herself to be led affectionately and tenderly, while playing a very supportive role. Both men and women have masculine and feminine energies within, finding the right mix between the two, is key for emotional balance (logic and emotion). Too much of one or the other energy, creates conflict, lack of alignment and totally unnecessary drifts…
It doesn’t mean women should be passive, totally submissive, disrespected, not have unique perspectives or never voices her opinions. Usually, a man is attracted to a woman who isn’t just like him (Yin & Yang – unity in opposites, reconciling and harmonising two essential ways of life: the spiritual way and the materialistic way), one who can give him true strength, creatively guide, share views, encourage growth and positively challenge.
Being agreeable is based on true love, because love is all that really matters, at the end of the day, no matter what. It’s not about power-play, being right or wrong, but being happy and in harmony. It’s an unbreakable bond of belief and hope, that both masculine and feminine energies will fully acknowledge, accept and take responsibility of their primary roles to create balance, peace, emotional fulfilment, success, joy and harmony.
“A woman who knows who she truly is and has mastered her feminine energy, is endlessly alluring and enchanting”…
Being agreeable is actually my power, as a woman…
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