A good wife?…

Email: Views on sex before marriage? Fiancé expects as a good wife. (India)

Welcome back! Your arranged marriage question previously cost sleepless nights due to hate mails. Here we go again, tough luck! Pre-marital sex is a moral issue in some cultures, but physical intimacy is entirely a personal preference, decision. Shouldn’t be forced or instigate guilt. A level of raw, natural vulnerability, comfort is a pre-requisite. Suggest an organic progression into flights of sexual, sensual explorations. Ensures healthier, happier relationships. 

As an adult take responsibility for safety, emotional impact. Sexual chemistry is something that can only be ascertained by having sex. An important role in successful marriages. Being on same sexual wave length, expectation is a positive outcome. Sensitively discuss sex. If enthusiastic, convey clearly. Likewise, if nervous or unsure, gently convey that too. Not fool-proof, worth expressing tenderly. 

Give a thought to reasons for nervousness, uncertainty? Lack of experience, fear of rejection, judgement? Just because you’re not having sex doesn’t mean you can’t talk about sex? Together, get creative to clear blocks. Staying mute about sexual needs, fantasies, fears stifles real intimacy, pleasure, passion. All the best to both! Now, should I check comments on post or not? So very scared, nervous.

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