Email: How to know if relationships are good, bad, dating for a while? (US)
The journey to finding a real relationship is just that, a journey that uses all our life’s dreams, passions, wisdom, desires, experiences. Before we find a ‘complete’ relationship, refine our own concept of who we are, what we really want from one. Find balance.
Part of the journey of finding a perfect partner is learning how to become our own mate first. When we learn to meet most of our own needs without totally relying on others, relationships aren’t from a space of needing stuff or emptiness to be filled. It’s precious not because we just ‘need’, but because we genuinely ‘want’, a big difference. Potential to be uniquely equal, unlock the best life has to offer in all it’s glorious forms!
Getting to know who we are, learning to love selves creates a solid foundation to bring to relationships. A cherished, charming companionship, not co-dependency. A time when relationships can unfold at any pace, take unique forms. Kinds of friendships, long distance, committed relationships etc. At times, multiple types of relationships happen to teach us what we really want.
Remember universe works in perfect order, life naturally unfolds in many unexpected, playful, surprising ways, as fated. Rumi said, ‘what you seek is seeking you’! Exactly as it’s meant to be. There isn’t a timetable, timeline to follow. Sometimes it sparks in a day, at times a lifetime isn’t enough.
Follow core spirit, listen to intuitive voices, fuse mind and heart. Stay open, receptive to love, feel what resonates. Barriers to love always lie somewhere unknowingly within us. Journey to find right relationships begins with being in honest relationships with selves.