Subjective bias…

Observed some family members make subjective judgments, opinions based on past emotional histories. An unreasonable bias to others. We build our understanding based on our experiences but also upon our own interpretation of events.
We may hold others responsible for an experience we created. When we look at our own personal histories, honestly see how our thoughts, beliefs influenced our experiences, we let others off the hook, take personal responsibility for our actions, ideas.

Then, we move forward without subjecting others to our judgment but with confidence that we can create a more fulfilling experience for selves, than we have in the past. By shifting judgment from outside blame to inner responsibility, we can create meaningful experiences for selves, others.

We may notice our experiences of events may be different from others experiences. Each of us has our own mental filters, emotional expectations that help us interpret. What may be seen as naïveté may be result of an open mind, lack of judgment. When we look at past experiences as one of many possible outcomes, we’re able to remain open as we walk into similar situations. By reserving judgments, we allow infinite universe to give another chance to enjoy an enhanced, refined experience, this time.

 

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