Email: How can I become attractive to all men? (UK)
Ha ha! Question, why would we want to be attractive to all? What’s the point? Is it a numbers game? What do we really want? Many men or a high quality man? Committed, sexual, friends or other types of relationships?
Will highly recommend serious thought to what ‘type of a man‘ we wish to attract? What type of a relationship will excite or inspire? Which attributes are significant?
Is it someone exactly like us? Our exact opposite, completes? Who’s worth investing time and effort?
Power of polarity is important. Focus on our femininity. Physical, mental, emotional attraction to spark desire. Great blend of all three is a holy grail. Power of 1 + 1 = 11.
A ‘good fit’ and ‘high value’ for both – short, mid, long term. Mutual understanding, chemistry, respect, communication and alignment with each other’s belief’s desires, goals, fears, ambitions, lifestyles, material plans, expectations, personalities.
Unlike popular belief, we shouldn’t have to work too hard to attract the right man. Nurturing our worth and value is key, to attract a man who appreciates who we are (good, bad, ugly).
Being our natural balanced, honest, playful self is sexy. Assume sensitivity, emotional maturity and intimacy, independence, trust and compassion should have high value. Someone that matches our passion levels.
Physical attraction is common but mental and emotional attraction is extremely rare.
People will do anything for those who encourage their dreams, accept their mistakes without judgements, justify their failures without criticism, inspire self-belief and expansion, allay their insecurities or fears, to ultimately build true trust and love.