Email: Husband is physically violent, 10 years. Feel stuck. What to do? (US)
Hey PS, empathetic with your situation. Can really feel your pain.
3 basic laws of nature – we either decline, stagnate or grow. If we chose to stagnate, we eventually decline. We can’t change circumstances or seasons, we can change ourselves, assert our freedom to follow our path, purpose, passions. Trust and believe in ourself.
Personal responsibility – can’t blame a person, family or society for our darkness. Feel stuck due to our negative thinking, self-limiting mindsets or conditioning.
We aren’t puppets – need to take full personal responsibility for life-affirming choices and actions. We need true respect, love, fulfilment, compassion and expansion.
If we don’t love ourselves to be assertive about what we want, why would others? What are we sacrificing, at what cost – our precious self-respect, desires, aspirations? Nothing is worth living an unauthentic or unloved life full of regret, sorrow and sadness.
Only if….
Relationships are successful when energetically there’s an equal level of true love, deep understanding, empathy, companionship. Please take ownership, control over life.
Take good care. Make required decisions, act to seek urgent help (counselling, police).