Email: My GF may be dating another guy. Should I play it cool? (AUS)
Hi PS,
OMG, trust me, I’m the last person to ask for help with dating, no bloody clue…!
Unsure what ‘dating gurus’ will say. Listen to your own mind and heart to decide your actions. In any relationship, pretence is not a great strategy. Share your thoughts, disappointments, desires, fears or expectations. Listen and understand her perspective.
What purpose does playing it cool serve? Only creates confusion. Innately, we want to be loved and valued. Cautiously, gently, non-critically approach the challenge. She will respect or admire your initiative. Will understand your intention, love your leadership.
Conflict is never a challenge, our attitude is. You may know exactly what to do, to show you care. If you really want her, go get her. You will find a way…
Please talk to dating experts in your circle, as well.
Good luck!